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A friend and I wanted to play casually, and ive seen a few youtubers be able to pick moves for eachother and I want to know how. I tried googling, but it all came back to like playing against eachother.
it is a tourbannable offense in a tournament setting, as an immediate warning. the youtubers in question were logged into the same ps account and thus could see the games as they loaded/etc, i would not reccomend doing this with anyone you dont trust for security reasons. and again dont do it in tournament its against rules (and super easy to track)